Kissing is a highly intimate act that two people can share.
It’s a moment for both lovers to connect with each other on a physical level, whether it be in public or behind closed doors.
But what about narcissists? Are they into kissing? This might surprise you.
In this article, you will learn everything you need to know about narcissists and kissing.
Do narcissists enjoy kissing?
It is not uncommon for narcissists to enjoy kissing and physical intimacy, as they may use these behaviors to manipulate and control their partners.
It’s important to remember that not all narcissists will necessarily enjoy kissing or be good at it.
A narcissist may use kissing and physical intimacy to gain power and control over their partner rather than to show genuine affection or connection.
As with any individual, the motivations and behaviors of a narcissist can vary widely. It is important to be aware of any relationship’s red flags and prioritize your well-being and boundaries.
Why do narcissists kiss?
Narcissists are very good at reading people and figuring out what they want. They know how to make others feel special, admired, and loved. And if you’re willing to kiss them back, they will probably enjoy kissing you more than the average person would.
There are many reasons why narcissists may enjoy kissing you:
- Kissing gives them a way to get what they want from someone else. For example: If your boyfriend wants something from his boss (like a raise), he may try to kiss up by kissing his boss in front of coworkers. This shows that he cares about her. This makes both of them feel good about themselves and their relationship. Therefore, she may be more likely to give him what he wants in return for being such a desirable employee. Narcissists may also do things just to feel appreciated or admired so those feelings don’t disappear. It’s not always about getting favors from others.
- Kissing can also be used as an excuse for flirting with someone else’s partner. However, this is not always the case. Some narcissists are only interested in their own gratification, which may only mean wanting sex.
Which types of narcissists enjoy kissing?
While narcissists of all shapes and sizes can enjoy kissing, it’s important to note that there are some major differences between the types of narcissists who enjoy kissing. The first type is a narcissist in love. This individual will be extremely affectionate and have an intense desire to kiss their partner as often as possible.
The second type is an affectionate narcissist. This means they enjoy being affectionate, but they may not be deeply in love with their partner. These individuals might kiss more often than others. They may do this because they enjoy physical contact or want to keep their partners close for other reasons, such as seeking attention or admiration.
The third type of person may not deeply love their partner, but they still have strong feelings for them. Kissing may not come naturally to them, and they may not enjoy it as often as others. However, when they do kiss someone, it is a special and meaningful gesture. This person may be seen as “clingy.” They put a lot of effort and attention into every aspect of their relationship. This includes small gestures like holding hands or going on group dates instead of just one-on-one outings.
Can you spot a narcissist by their kissing style?
Kissing is a form of physical intimacy and can be used to test the waters and see if someone is interested in you. Narcissists are often very good at reading people and knowing what they want, so it’s not surprising that they try to kiss their partner as soon as possible.
This doesn’t mean narcissists enjoy kissing more than anyone else does—it’s just another way to receive validation from others. Some research has shown that people with high levels of narcissism may not feel a strong sense of satisfaction after kissing someone new. They may focus more on their performance during the kiss rather than their emotional response afterward (Tickle et al., 2013).
What can a narcissist’s kiss tell you about his or her personality?
While you might think narcissists are less likely to enjoy kissing, the truth is somewhat more complicated. Selfish people may be less affectionate than others. Still, they can often turn on the charm when they want something—and most people want a kiss at one point or another.
Regarding personality traits, narcissism has been linked with impulsivity and aggression. These qualities can make it difficult for narcissists to maintain long-term relationships—but not so much that they don’t want them! Selfish people may not generally show a lot of affection. Still, when they do develop feelings of love, they tend to feel it intensely and become very possessive of their partners.
If you’re wondering whether your partner has narcissism traits, ask yourself these questions: Is she more likely to kiss you if she wants something from you? Does he seem protective of his possessions (including his partner)? If a person exhibits these behaviors, it could be a sign that they act out of self-interest rather than genuine care for others. This could be a sign that these behaviors extend beyond just romance.
Do narcissists like physical intimacy?
Narcissists love touching, but not in a sexual way. This is because they tend to be more motivated by admiration and praise than anything else. Narcissism is an ego-syntonic disorder, meaning it feels comfortable or even good for narcissists to have high self-esteem.
A person with NPD will feel loved when you tell them that you admire their talents, skills, or abilities (real or imagined). You might say things like: “I’m so proud of your talent for cooking,” or “You’re such an amazing artist.” They also enjoy being told how special they are. You could make comments like: “I’m lucky to have met someone as amazing as you,” or simply, “You mean so much to me.”
In addition, if your partner loves feeling important, try complimenting them on how important their job is – remember not to mention any details.
Can a narcissist be affectionate with someone they love?
Narcissists are generally not affectionate with people they don’t know. They tend to avoid or ignore such people unless there is a potential for benefit or advantage. This can be seen in narcissists’ interactions with strangers.
However, narcissists may be more affectionate towards those they love, as it helps them meet their needs without having to invest much effort into the relationship. For example, a narcissistic parent might give their child lots of gifts and praise but ignore their emotional needs and desires. This behavior allows the parent to present themselves as loving while also keeping the child close and able to provide them with companionship and benefit them in some way.
Is kissing truly important to a narcissist?
Are narcissists really interested in kissing? This might surprise you, but the answer is yes!
Kissing is important to narcissists. It’s a way of asserting dominance and showing power over others. It also makes the narcissist feel superior and more powerful than the other person by making them feel weak and inferior.
Kissing can be a way for two people deeply in love to express their affection. It is not always about trying to assert dominance over someone else. So if a narcissist loves someone enough, they will want to kiss them frequently and do other physical stuff like cuddling and holding hands because it makes them happy when they do these things together.
Final Thoughts
We hope this article has helped you understand how narcissists feel about kissing.
Narcissists may or may not enjoy kissing, and it depends on their individual motivations and behaviors.
Some may enjoy it for physical or social reasons, while others may not find it enjoyable due to a lack of deep love or a natural inclination.
It’s important to remember that individuals, even those with narcissistic traits, are complex.
